Tackling inner-barriers... with kindness

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We all experience inner barriers to living in a way that is best for us. 'Hindrances' is a word that can be used for all the inner barriers and difficult emotions that disrupt our lives. These inner barriers are traditionally grouped (in Buddhist sutras) in different ways, and are given names that are suggestive of how they can impact upon us: ‘fetters', ‘bonds’, ‘floods’ and so forth.

The hinderances we face are commonly summarised into the ‘five hindrances’:

  1. longing, or desire for objects of the five senses
  2. ill-will
  3. sloth and torpor
  4. restlessness and worry
  5. doubt

It is argued that all our different destructive emotions are included in the attachment to these five hindrances. But at the root of these five hindrances are the three unwholesome roots:

  1. greed
  2. hate
  3. delusion

Experiencing these tendencies is part of our ordinary daily lives. We all experience these, pretty much all the time on some level. The trouble is, that as roots they can also lead to the growth of yet more difficult emotions and sometimes unskilful actions - for both ourselves AND for other people.

Buddhist psychology actually sets the bar for mental health very high. All our inner barriers or hindrances (doubt, greed, hate, ill-will, etc.) have been described within Buddhist psychology as 'mental illnesses'. The Buddha stated that: ‘…apart from those whose taints [hindrances] have been destroyed, it is hard to find people in the world who can claim to enjoy mental health even for a moment’ (AN.IV.157).

Both the ancient Indian medical texts and Buddhist texts mention ‘greed’ and ‘hatred’/‘anger’ as examples of mental illness, and the Buddha referred to forty-four of the numerous illnesses that afflict the human mind. These 'illnesses' included agitation, doubt and jealousy - things not usually seen as illnesses! So from this point of view, it turns out we are ALL mentally ill!

Of course, another view can be taken on this. In fact, it is the way in which these hindrances and inner barriers are handled that distinguishes mental illness.

Yes, we all experience inner barriers and difficult emotions from time to time. Things like greed and anger are experienced by all of us, and calling them mental illnesses points out that they are not who we are. With the bar set this high, none of us are perfect or really 'sane' - we are ALL mentally ill in this way, since we all get angry or jealous etc.

The good news is, this is actually a reason to celebrate. It means we can all journey from being over-ridden by inner barriers and difficulties to greater peace of mind. We can all do better if we don't get side-tracked with judging or justifying ourselves.

For all of us things can be more difficult at some times more than others and we can start right now, by first of all wishing kindness for ourselves.

Wishing kindness toward ourselves might sound too simple to make any difference. It might seem like an empty gesture or just a cliche. If when attempting to really do this we have a tendency to feel like this just is annoying fluffy nonsense, we can remember what the intention is here.

We can just give ourselves a break for a moment. We don't need "fixing" somehow before we can have a kind intention towards ourself and this is not some magic trick.

Why not really and sincerely wish for ourselves to be well and happy right now.

No need to justify any of it, and if the sting comes "but I DON'T feel feel well or happy!" Just be kind to where that reaction comes from, and let the place where that reaction comes from receive the intention of kindness too. So there is no fight with ourselves. We can start right here.

So whatever else is on the mind, without demanding any result from doing so, we can purely out of an intention of kindness, right now close the eyes, take a breath, notice any inner barrier that may be there, and without setting up an inner-battle, silently repeat to ourselves:

"may I be well and happy..."

Manasa Ayurveda Hospital in Sri Lanka wins International Health Care Award 2017

Dr Saman Hettige was awarded the "Sustainable Development Goals - International Health Care Award 2017" at the 55th International Congress of Integrative Medicine in Bali, Indonesia. He was awarded for his contribution to making the Neelamahara psychiatry tradition "popular internationally".  

The Manasa Ayurveda hospital in Sri Lanka practices the Neelamahara psychiatry tradition which has continued for around 350 years in the Neelamahara Buddhist temple and surrounding village community. Ancestors of this tradition include both Buddhist Monks and lay Buddhist Doctors (see below). 

'Manasa Ayurveda' means "Ayurveda for the Mind" and as well as for the Manasa Ayurveda Hospital in Sri Lanka, this name has also been used for the 'Manasa Ayurveda Pharmacy' in India and for our specialist service in the UK offering 'Ayurveda for the mind, mental health and wellbeing'. Although the name 'Manasa Ayurveda' is used in common, these services are not part of the same organisation or company. Manasa Ayurveda (UK) remains independent from Manasa Ayurveda pharmacies and hospitals in India and Sri Lanka. Manasa Ayurveda (UK) is directed by mental health professionals registered and insured in the UK.

Manasa Ayurveda (UK) owes a debt of gratitude to Dr Saman Hettige for sharing knowledge and experience, and for supporting our efforts to introduce Ayurvedic psychiatric therapies in the UK. Some key ingredients used by Manasa Ayurveda (UK) are sourced directly through the Manasa Ayurveda hospital in Sri Lanka, and Manasa Ayurveda (UK) therapies are directly informed by first-hand learning and clinical experience within the Manasa Ayurveda Hospital in Sri Lanka. Manasa Ayurveda (UK) is proud that the Neelamahara tradition continues to inform our therapies.

Many congratulations to Dr Saman Hettige and the Manasa Ayurveda Hospital in Sri Lanka.

Dr Saman Hettige at the International Health Care Award Ceremony 2017

Dr Saman Hettige at the International Health Care Award Ceremony 2017

Ancestors of the Neelamahara Tradition

Rev. Dr. Werehera Sobitha  (1854-1886)

Rev. Dr. Werehera Sobitha  (1854-1886)

Rev. Dr. Erawwala Seelalankara  (1906-1935)

Rev. Dr. Erawwala Seelalankara  (1906-1935)

Rev. Dr. Dehiwala Dhammaloka  (1935-1971)

Rev. Dr. Dehiwala Dhammaloka  (1935-1971)

Ayur.Dr. Indrasena DeAlwis  (1950-2000)

Ayur.Dr. Indrasena DeAlwis  (1950-2000)

Rev. Dr. Dehiwala Buddarakkitha Thero  (1965-2013)

Rev. Dr. Dehiwala Buddarakkitha Thero  (1965-2013)

Ayur.Dr. D.S. Hettige (1965 - 2013)

Ayur.Dr. D.S. Hettige (1965 - 2013)

Ayur. Dr. S. Hettige - Present day Managing Director Manasa Ayurveda Hospital - Neelamahara

Ayur. Dr. S. Hettige - Present day Managing Director Manasa Ayurveda Hospital - Neelamahara

Manasa Ayurveda - Service User Feedback

The following is written feedback from Manasa Ayurveda clients and service users in London:

'For me a very positive well-being session. I hope to maintain a wellbeing attitude daily. I like the Ayurvedic approach’

‘I was happy and it was interesting what you use’

‘Very helpful and beneficial’

‘Having the peaceful sensation of a face massage is certainly worth having long-term’

‘Today was different in terms of more detail focus on feeding the senses and possible outcome; very useful and mindful and interesting’

‘very sufficient with the therapist’

‘I was interested in everything, it was something new’

‘Being able to verbally express my feelings around family life and circumstances has been mentally and emotionally de-stressing’

‘Extremely relaxing and I had positive reflections on wellbeing’

‘Mindfulness… I find very interesting in terms of its apparent simplicity though NOT simple and needs my attention and practice’

‘Very interesting’

'Today’s session was extremely beneficial and relaxing, beneficial discussing my sleep and wellbeing patterns; extremely useful for service users’.

'Very practical and beneficial’

‘The Nasya oil was introduced to me in today’s session; very soothing. I hope this will in time alleviate my congestion. I look forward to Ayurveda sessions’.

‘Excellent treatment’

‘The massage was very helpful and teas’

‘The mindful, sensual, wellbeing impact of Ayurveda creates thoughts of the possibility of a healthier future’

‘Very beneficial experience’

‘Today’s session was most helpful for me. Discussion on sleep, wellbeing and talking around my feelings helped greatly’